Is No Not Clear Enough For You? , Angelia Vernon Menchan
Angelia Vernon Menchan’s latest release Is No Not Clear Enough For You? proves that sometimes it’s about more than a book. It’s about a mission, a calling and a passion. She pens a novel for young women advocating the power of saying no to others and yes to themselves. An in doing so she brings her passion for working with young women and her passion for creating dynamic and engaging stories together. I wanted to highlight, Angelia’s latest book because I think it’s amazing and encouraging that she has found away to bring her passions together in what she calls “ageless fiction.” I interviewed Angelia back in August, and I’m very pleased to have her back to chat about her latest book.
So Angelia, can you tell us a little bit about what sparked your desire to bring the wonderful work with young women that you’re doing in the community together with your fiction writing?
AVM: It was time and very necessary, young women are being cultured to say yes to everything. They are often not allowed voices. I see many successful adult women who feel they must do it all, because they were never taught to say no to anyone. As young adults they are taught that no matter how smart they are they must take care of everyone and everything and often to their own detriment. Looking back I think most women will find they wished they had said no more often. No doesn’t have to be a negative if it is about not being pressured, manipulated or shamed into doing something that isn’t good for you, or that leaves you unable to care for yourself.
GB: Malaaka Green is a teen facing pressures that many young women face and many succumb to. The teenage pregnancy rates and growing HIV/AIDs rates for young women of color show that many young women are having a hard time when faced with having sex before they are really mentally ready. What is your biggest dream for the impact that sharing Malaaka’s journey might have?
AVM: My biggest prayer and dream is that through Malaaka, young women will see that there are choices. My experience has taught me that mostly teenage girls are becoming sexual before they are ready, simply to please someone else, oftentimes a boyfriend. Or more frighteningly they are using their bodies to get material things. Not realizing that no amount of ‘stuff’ is worth giving away their very essence. Through Malaaka and my own experiences I want them to know they can say NO, while having fun, going to church, parties, dating and all the really cool things that are out there. Most, importantly they can get educated and have empowered lives and great family relationships. The most compelling part of Malaaka’s story is how much she learned from her elders mistakes.
GB: I think we can all relate to Malaaka’s struggles, and perhaps some of us wish we could go back in time and hold what was precious to us by saying no at that critical time in our lives. Are there any other issues that teens face that you plan to deal with in future books? What do you think is most pressing issue for us to be concerned with as far as teens today are concerned?
AVM: Actually, in the African-American community there is an issue that astounds me and that is the one about not allowing people to know you are smart. I saw a bit of that with my youngest son, he had awesome grades and won scholarships but most of his friends thought of him as this real, hip-hop kid, as though it weren’t important to be as smart as you are hip. He never disclosed his grades or how well he was doing academically. Fortunately, for him he had parents who didn’t fool around when it came to grades and responsibility, but we are going to have to kill this idea that proper speech patterns and good grades aren’t “Black” enough. So, I will definitely be writing about that!
GB: What’s next for you? Do you plan to write another Young Adult novel?
AVM: I will, but I am actually writing Schae’s Story right now. Schae is a woman at a spiritual crossroads. She has used her beauty to get what she wanted from men since a very young age. At forty-five she knows she should be on a higher spiritual path. What people, particularly the men in her life will discover is under all that makeup and behind those curves lives a spiritual, smart woman who is on the road to transformation. There are components of her young life, however, that will explain why she became who she was perceived to be which ties into my young adult messages.
GB: Thanks for taking the time to chat with us about this important project, Angelia!
Thank you Gwyneth for always supporting authors and allowing us to talk about our work, bless you!
Monday, February 11, 2008
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Gwyneth, great interview. I will definitely check out Is No Not Clear Enough For You? I definitely think this is a book that every young woman should read.
Thanks Gwyneth,I truly appreciating you talking About 'my' Book...
Tiffany it has turned out to be that, when writing my main focus was on what I call Emerging Women,but most amazingly it is touching slightly older and much older women. This is the first book I have written where elders are purchasing for youngsters or youngsters are reading and telling their moms, aunts or even grandparents they should check it out also. Thanks so much...
angelia
Good interview.
I agree, it appears black females are being groomed to fall for anything.
And isn't it sad how kids don't respect smart kids anymore? Almost to the point where a young kid feels somewhat guilty about it. When I was in junior high school, I failed to try as hard, due to this fact.
Gwyneth,
You conduct such great interviews! I cannot wait for you to review mine whenever it's published!! :*)
Yes Don,
They are, we fool them into thinking that being cute, fine and with a big behind, is most important. I cringe sometimes when I talk to smart young women who are so phyically focused and playing down their smarts. I tell them beautiful is a beautiful thing, but there is so much else to aspire to and to be known for...sorry but I can talk all day and into the night about this...
Demon Hunter,
Lady Gwyneth is interviewer extraordinaire...
Blessings,
angelia
Tiffany ~ Thanks for checking out the interview. I think women young and old will be able to take away important messages from Angelia's book.
Don ~ It is sad that kids don't respect smart kids. This was somewhat a problem when I was growing up too... way back in the dark ages... LOL. But I think it may be worse now. Sad.
Tyhitia ~ I can't wait to interview you about your book. ;-)
Angelia ~ Thanks so much for taking the time to chat about your book. You rock! :-)
Gwyneth
What a wonderful theme for a book! Thank you, Angelia, for writing it, and Gwyneth for helping spread the word.
kudos to Gwyneth and Angelia!
xoxo
yasmin
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Bettye and Yasmin, Thanks for checking out the interview!
Putting this one on my list. What an important book!
Thanks for checking out the interview, Patricia! I think it is a very important book. Hopefully it will end up in lots of young ladies' hands...
Gwyneth
"...young women are being cultured to say yes to everything. They are often not allowed voices."
The ironic thing is we look around the world and see young women murdered for excercising the human right of choosing their own romantic partners. Their marriages are arranged for them and they die in what's called 'honor killings' when they don't comply. When we read about such atrocities, we feel very smug in America that women have choices. And, yet, that's not really true for many young American women. They're 'cultured' to do what others, mostly male, want.
I think until girls are taught and empowered that they are worthy and have rights and will be supported in making their choices, we won't see much improvement.
Kudos to Ms. Menchan for being a force for change in this matter!
Thanks Bettye, Yas, Patricia and KimberAn for your comments they are greatly appreciated...and again Mucho Thanks to Lady Gwyneth...
Love and Blessings,
angelia
I'll see if I can get it for my 14 year old daughter. Thanks G.
Bella
Thanks for checking out the interview Kimber An and Bella!
Gwyneth
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