"Not Another Stereotype"

I don't want it all
but you just can't take some
you have to take the good and the bad
So, you can't be a strong black woman without
being an emasculating, castrating, domineering,
matriarch, man-hating bitch
No matter how you choose, you lose
you can't claim the rhythm or the funk or the
basketball dunk
without being the coon, fool, better off in
slavery, yes sir, no mam, i'se don't know sir, low
end of the bell curve n-----
one stereotype feeds another
and there's no such thing as a positive without
a negative to balance it out
So, what is this all about?
I was simply saying...
I don't want it all...